"Kadang-Kadang kita perlu letakkan ego kita ketepi supaya orang yang kita sayang tahu yang kita sayangkan dia........."

"We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.."

akulah para pencari-Mu, akulah yang merindukan-Mu ya rabbi,hanya di jalan-Mu ya Allah,tempatku pasrahkan hidupku..

*PLEASE DO MIND YR WORDS if u wanna write a comment. BERSIHKAN HATI & MINDA dahulu sblum komen. Think +ve. TQ.*

Saturday, November 13, 2010


There was a time in my life where I thought I would NEVER find a good man to fall in love with me and have a family.That's because I kept ending up in dead-end relationships with men who didn't really love me the way I deserved to be loved.They claimed they loved me...but would leave me for ANOTHER woman they'd marry. Or they told me after months or years of dating that I was a great "friend." Ugh..! But it wasn't all their fault.

You see, I wasted a LOT of time when I was younger chasing after or pining away for relationships that were NEVER going to work, that were ALWAYS going to cause me to feel unloved and unappreciated.It wasn't so much that I picked the wrong men, it was really that I didn't know how to recognize when a man wasn't really ATTRACTED to me on an emotional level. I didn't know the difference between being loved "as a friend" and being REALLY, DEEPLY loved by a man who would turn his entire life upside- down just to make me happy and commit to me. So I wasted a lot of time trying to be more attractive, manipulating the situation, pining away hopelessly and generally making myself miserable.

Not much helped, until I figured out what I was doing wrong and tried something TOTALLY different.I had to do something, because I really wanted that kind of warm, supportive and loving relationship with a man. I wanted a man to pine away for me for a change.Fortunately, after much trial and error, I stumbled upon what FINALLY worked.

This are the tips..

Have you found yourself feeling alone and unappreciated because the man you're with keeps telling you he's "not sure" about what he's feeling, or what he wants? Do you do MORE for your boyfriend or husband, only to get much LESS back in terms of how much support, attention and affection he gives you? Why does it have to be so difficult? Why can't you just be yourself, be loving, and get the love you want?

You can! You absolutely can.

The problem basically is that as women in modern society, we've been sold a pretty defective "bill of goods" when it comes to knowing what men want, or what it takes to win a man's heart and attract him. For example, we are told that being "sex kittens" is the way to attract and keep a man.Nothing can be further from the truth! You may attract a man PHYSICALLY, but you'll never "get" a man to fall in love and STAY in love with you, no matter how good you are in bed.We think that we have to look like models and have the charisma of movie stars to attract a man or get his interest.

Wrong here, too. If you read how often movie stars get divorced, you'll realize that looks aren't enough to keep a man in love and passionate about you.You think if you're smart and witty, he'll be dying to spend time with you. Actually, if the only way you're attracting men is because you're so informed and intelligent, you'll probably notice that you have a lot of guy "pals" but not one of them is wanting to devote his heart to you.There is something else that attracts a man, and the GOOD NEWS is that it is part of who you are as a woman.You can actually be MORE yourself than you ever thought possible and become the most attractive and compelling woman you have ever been.

No more waiting on a man to call you, or wondering if you have his heart or not, because when you read this tips, you will have that huge "AHA!" moment of knowing that keeping a man magnetically attracted means one thing: Being your genuine, feeling, feminine self.Wouldn't it be great to not have to worry ever again that what you're doing or saying is accidentally pushing a man away or turning him off? Wouldn't you love to know the SECRET that some women already know about how to be relaxed and confident while being naturally ALLURING and irresistible to men?

You can find out. And then that can be YOU. I have found one.He's such a generous,supportive and a caring man i ever met. I have found someone that i love and love me the way i love him. And how bout You?

Notes : Thanks to all my friends and Family that always support me no matter what and no matter who i am.. Only Allah could pay back your kindness.

Thanks for your time to read my two cents opinion..

Sincerely written from the deep of my heart,


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