"Kadang-Kadang kita perlu letakkan ego kita ketepi supaya orang yang kita sayang tahu yang kita sayangkan dia........."

"We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.."

akulah para pencari-Mu, akulah yang merindukan-Mu ya rabbi,hanya di jalan-Mu ya Allah,tempatku pasrahkan hidupku..

*PLEASE DO MIND YR WORDS if u wanna write a comment. BERSIHKAN HATI & MINDA dahulu sblum komen. Think +ve. TQ.*


Sunday, November 14, 2010

My Wedding Dream...

Everyone has their own wedding dream... Well, so do I.. Do you wanna know what kind of wedding that i have dream of all this while? Let me show you....






Well, i dream of having a garden wedding concept.. It's a wedding that takes place in a garden.

Let me tell you the history and tradition about the garden wedding.

Brides drawn to garden weddings often place great importance on personal and family histories. For these brides, "something old" is more than just a saying! If this rings true, then even something as central as your engagement or wedding band is likely to have a history ... like a stone or setting that once belonged to a grandmother. Some brides pin a piece of their mother's gown to their own, or weave a number of referrals to relatives throughout the day: a romantic photo table, for example, where grandparents and great-grandparents smile out from sepia photos. Or a bride might choose one of her mother's favorite flowers for her own bouquet.

Well, it might be only in my dream. Referring to my situation right now, i might be have to let it be as my wedding dream, hard to make it reality.. I could just wish...

Love,
Honeya

Saturday, November 13, 2010

TIPS IN RELATIONSHIP

There was a time in my life where I thought I would NEVER find a good man to fall in love with me and have a family.That's because I kept ending up in dead-end relationships with men who didn't really love me the way I deserved to be loved.They claimed they loved me...but would leave me for ANOTHER woman they'd marry. Or they told me after months or years of dating that I was a great "friend." Ugh..! But it wasn't all their fault.

You see, I wasted a LOT of time when I was younger chasing after or pining away for relationships that were NEVER going to work, that were ALWAYS going to cause me to feel unloved and unappreciated.It wasn't so much that I picked the wrong men, it was really that I didn't know how to recognize when a man wasn't really ATTRACTED to me on an emotional level. I didn't know the difference between being loved "as a friend" and being REALLY, DEEPLY loved by a man who would turn his entire life upside- down just to make me happy and commit to me. So I wasted a lot of time trying to be more attractive, manipulating the situation, pining away hopelessly and generally making myself miserable.

Not much helped, until I figured out what I was doing wrong and tried something TOTALLY different.I had to do something, because I really wanted that kind of warm, supportive and loving relationship with a man. I wanted a man to pine away for me for a change.Fortunately, after much trial and error, I stumbled upon what FINALLY worked.

This are the tips..

Have you found yourself feeling alone and unappreciated because the man you're with keeps telling you he's "not sure" about what he's feeling, or what he wants? Do you do MORE for your boyfriend or husband, only to get much LESS back in terms of how much support, attention and affection he gives you? Why does it have to be so difficult? Why can't you just be yourself, be loving, and get the love you want?

You can! You absolutely can.

The problem basically is that as women in modern society, we've been sold a pretty defective "bill of goods" when it comes to knowing what men want, or what it takes to win a man's heart and attract him. For example, we are told that being "sex kittens" is the way to attract and keep a man.Nothing can be further from the truth! You may attract a man PHYSICALLY, but you'll never "get" a man to fall in love and STAY in love with you, no matter how good you are in bed.We think that we have to look like models and have the charisma of movie stars to attract a man or get his interest.

Wrong here, too. If you read how often movie stars get divorced, you'll realize that looks aren't enough to keep a man in love and passionate about you.You think if you're smart and witty, he'll be dying to spend time with you. Actually, if the only way you're attracting men is because you're so informed and intelligent, you'll probably notice that you have a lot of guy "pals" but not one of them is wanting to devote his heart to you.There is something else that attracts a man, and the GOOD NEWS is that it is part of who you are as a woman.You can actually be MORE yourself than you ever thought possible and become the most attractive and compelling woman you have ever been.

No more waiting on a man to call you, or wondering if you have his heart or not, because when you read this tips, you will have that huge "AHA!" moment of knowing that keeping a man magnetically attracted means one thing: Being your genuine, feeling, feminine self.Wouldn't it be great to not have to worry ever again that what you're doing or saying is accidentally pushing a man away or turning him off? Wouldn't you love to know the SECRET that some women already know about how to be relaxed and confident while being naturally ALLURING and irresistible to men?

You can find out. And then that can be YOU. I have found one.He's such a generous,supportive and a caring man i ever met. I have found someone that i love and love me the way i love him. And how bout You?

Notes : Thanks to all my friends and Family that always support me no matter what and no matter who i am.. Only Allah could pay back your kindness.

Thanks for your time to read my two cents opinion..

Sincerely written from the deep of my heart,

Honeya

Thursday, November 11, 2010

Miss You


Do u know how much that I miss you lately....
I miss the first time we met
I miss the first time you hold my hand
I miss the moment, where you calm me down when i'm sad
I miss the moment, where you look into my eyes and tell me that you love me
I miss the moment, when you hug me when i need it
I miss the moment, when you take a good care of me when I'm not feeling well. (thanks syg)
I miss the moment, when you try to make me happy..
I miss your voice
I miss your face
I miss your smile
I miss everything about you
I miss you so much sayang....

Love,
Honeya

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Down

Dunno what else to do... baru je nak happy2... ada je dugaan.. Ya Allah.. Rasa macam nak senyap aje at the moment...


~Honeya~

Friday, November 5, 2010

Three Legs Cooling Water

Today i have drink 3 bottles of Three Legs Cooling water... or we called it as "Air Cap Badak".
Sampai kembung perut. haha... Well, I have to, due to my body temperature recently unstable.
I just bought another 2 bottles.. Gila, pagi-pagi buta dah pi cari air cap badak.. haha...

Three Legs Cooling Water (Air Cap Badak)

Love,
Honeya

Happy

I'm happy with myself. And I'm happy today for sure...! Thanks to you.. Yes you...
You light up my life for sure... =)


Love,
Honeya

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Hiding

It's 6.42am in the morning. I still can't sleep. Well, i did tried, but still can't. There's a lot of things running in my head. Well, they said, even me myself did said that don't think too much.The problem is everything came in a sudden. Did tried to let go one by one..but i could actually managed to let go one quarter of it.*sighs*. So pathetic.

Well, let discuss it over here. Let say that you have a relationship with someone and the person have waited for quite sometimes to be with you. Keep on trying without fail. Until come to the stage that u finally accept the person to be part of your life. And obviously the person would be so damn excited after waited for this excitement moment to be happen.

But..Unfortunately, everything turns the other way round. The person suddenly giving lots of reason for not calling you or sending sms often like before or even worst, lying that they can't online at certain period where as being caught on commenting someone's status or someone inform that they are chatting with the person which is one of my friend and the person didn't even know about it. Not trying to be stalker anyway. But it showed at the news feed column and my friend suddenly told me without i'm asking them. Well, it's Allah always there for me to help me.

And why on earth that the person wanted to hide about the relationship to public as in most of the person's friend in the friend list were actually my friends which are being added from my page. Weirdo.. And I'm quite well known by the public compared to you. Not trying to be so called "DIVA" but it's the fact. Durghh....!

Well, something wrong somewhere. There's some matters that we should be hide on. But yet some situation or matters should not be hide on which is you should proud of it. Proud of your Partner, like, "Hey world, i am excited that my prayers have been granted by Allah after all that i've went through especially the hardest situation just to get her in my arm and i am so grateful and proud to be chosen by her at last". Quite weird actually. Unless you have someone else or you are ashamed of your partner or you don't want all the girls left or ignore you just because you have a girlfriend. It's bullshit tho. Can't be accepted. No way..

But then again, there's some situation that we should hide on the relationship status. Not for the reason of "our relationship is still at the early stage". Again,not accepted. Unless both of us are celebrities or well known by the public and a way of reducing the risks of gossips created just to make you fall or loosing job, yes it might be acceptable.

Last but not Least, be proud of what you have in a way to appreciate it, where as Allah has granted your prayers because of, you asked for it. Don't waste it. Or you will hardly received the same 'gift' ever again..

Cheers...

Love,
Honeya

Monday, November 1, 2010

Confused...?

If the guy loves you, he would definitely ask u for a hand (marriage),No need to wait so long to made the decision. If he gives so many reason, better don't put hope on him because he is not afraid of loosing you..


Love,
Honeya

Saturday, October 30, 2010

Mati dan Hidup

Yang hidup pasti akan mati.
Tanggal 29hb Oktober 2010, nenek sedara ku, yakni kakak kepada nenekku telah pulang ke rahmatullah. Sebak rasa hati. Kerana dia banyak beri semangat padaku semasa aku jatuh. Berangkatku untuk pulang ke Negeri sembilan untuk menguruskan jenazahnya.

Pabila ada yang mati, pasti ada kehidupan serta kelahiran yang baru.
Tanggal 30hb Oktober, SELAMAT HARI JADI AYAH..! AKU SAYANG KAMU SANGAT. KAU ADALAH IDOLA KU SEJAK KECIL. KAU LAH PEMBERI SEMANGATKU UNTUK TERUS HIDUP. AKU SAYANG KAMU, AYAH...LOVE YOU ALWAYS AND FOREVER


Love,
Honeya

Friday, October 29, 2010

Syukur dan Hargai

Bila kita ditimpa masalah, kita selalu ucapkan "why this things Happened Again to me.. urgghh..!!"
Tapi kita lupa masa kita diberi kesenangan dan kegembiraan, kita lupa untuk bersyukur dan menghargainya. Kita mungkin rasa yang kita bersyukur dan menghargainya. Tetapi benar kah?
Mungkin kita silap. Kita tak menghargai dan bersyukur. Kita lupa diri. Lupa dengan kegembiraan yang dikecapi.

Perbualanku dengan seorang teman ku yang jauh diperantauan telah mendorong ku untuk menulis post ini. Dia bercerita kepadaku tentang masalah yang dihadapinya suatu ketika dahulu. I'm listening.......

He told me that He was totally down whenever the same problem occurred. He keep on wondering, Why.. and Why...? "I sit back and think, where'd I go wrong..." Then he realized, that he has giving too much in a way that he thought that's the way how to appreciate the happiness given to him. But he was totally wrong. He should not do the same mistakes again and again. He should be alert especially whenever he's been given the happiness moment. And after he realized and he tried not to do the same mistakes even he is in a happy moment at the time,He's finally could shout out "Yeah..! I would never had to go through the previous problem again and again..alhamdulillah.."

So do we. Kena sentiasa beringat. Bila Happy saja, kita lupa apa yang tak patut kita lakukan. Tapi bila terkena semula, kita mahu salahkan takdir. or lebih teruk percaya itu adalah "CURSE".
It's all about ourselves. Not people around us.

Last but not Least, Syukur dan hargailah tatkala kegembiraan diberikan oleh Allah S.W.T dengan sentiasa beringat dan jangan take things for granted (ambil mudah). Kerana Kegembiraan diberi oleh Allah S.W.T kepada kita untuk Dia menguji kita samada kita Alpa atau Lupa atas apa yang tidak sepatutnya kita lakukan. Kerana kita cuma sedar pabila kita susah atau dilanda masalah. Maka hargai dan bersyukur lah kegembiraan yang diberi,no matter in what sense. Either on love,work,life and etc. Hargai dan Bersyukurlah sentiasa....

Credit to you, my friend. May Allah bless you.. Amin

"You learn how to be a success through experiencing, learning from and over coming failure"

Love,
Honeya

Saturday, October 16, 2010

Aku dan Kamu

Aku sayang kamu..
Kamu kata kamu sayang aku..
Tapi mana bukti kamu sayang aku..
Aku cuba berlari... berlari tanpa henti..
Aku cuba mengelak, dari godaan panah cinta darimu..
Tapi apa lah daya aku untuk mengelaknya...
Akhirnya kau genggam erat tanganku...
Enggan kau lepaskan...
Namun aku tahu ini adalah rahmat darinya kerana Aku ada Kamu..

Terima Kasih Cinta...

Love,
Honeya

Friday, October 15, 2010

Opportunity Cost

Opportunity Cost... Cost of letting go an Opportunity. How bout letting go the opportunity to be with someone? Is't consider a Cost as well?

Love,
Honeydy

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Frustrated




Some people just don't know how to appreciate other's effort for them. They just love take advantage and look down on people. I'm so frustated with those kind of people. Especially, when comes to work part.

Undefined Emotion,
Honeya

FIGHT

People nowadays tends to Fight without knowing the reason why they are fighting for. They just love to fight without thinking the circumstances that would come at the end. Example:
A : I hate that girl.
B : Then what would u do?
A : I want to fight the girl for being so arrogant
B : Did she interrupted your life?
A : No
B : Then why are you fighting her
A : She's so arrogant
B : But again, did she ever interrupted your life?
A : No she didn't
B : So, what are the reason you want to fight the girl as the girl didn't interrupted your life. Unless she did interrupted nor interrupting your life. So no point you are fighting with her.
A : Errr........

From here, A know what are he's fighting on but he's eventually don't even know the reason WHY he's fighting for as the girl didn't even interrupted his life. So again here, before you fight for something, you have to REALLY KNOW the REASON WHY you are fighting for regardless on whatever things or matters that you are fighting on.

Peace No War.!
Cheers..! =)

Love,
Honeya the Peace Lover